I have been planning to start a 4 part series on my grandfather (Grandee, to me) on the first of December. I thought it would be simple but I also decided to see if I had any old stuff out in the shed and...
KABOOM! I knew lots of stuff that I had sold, lost, or given away over the years but had forgotten stuff I've lugged around. So I keep finding things that don't quite fit in the series as I had planned it. So here is an out-take. (Actually I'm afraid the out-takes will be better than the series)...at least more spontaneous.
I do wish I’d asked more questions when I was growing up with my grandfather. I wish I’d listened more. There is so much about my grandfather’s history that I know only in bits and pieces but not how they connect. Like the war.
He joined the army near the end of World War One. I don’t know what he did in the war except that he told me that he never saw any action. I know that he was in England and France. I even found his passport!
I also know that he served in the Tank Corps under Dwight Eisenhower, long before he became president. Eisenhower, that is. He -- my grandfather, not Eisenhower --designed a logo for the tank corps and worked with some other soldiers to make a sign for the headquaerters.
I remember this because when I was 7 or 8 (or maybe 9 or 10) before we moved away from Washington, Grandee took me to Eisenhower’s retirement home in Gettysburg to give him these little documents. An aide came out to receive them and later Eisenhower wrote, through another aide, a note returning them with thanks.
Although my grandfather said he never "saw action," he saw the results of action in France and said he'd never forget it. In the shed I found some photos he had taken.
Years later he painted a very large painting of Rheims Cathedral, beautiful even in destruction.
Some people used to ask him why he didn't show it in it's glory and he used to say that he felt it had glory even in destruction. I wish I had been a better photo-copiest when I shot many of his pictures along time ago because I did not do justice to the frame. He hand-carved all his frames and this was magnificent but I can't find any slides that show it. Except for this detail of at the bottom.
This was a wall-sized painting, probably 6 feet tall. It was one of several that my grandmother and I could not get placed in museums after he died and then, after she passed away, I had to sell them because (a) they were too big for me to carry around or hang, (b) because I was an alcoholic and needed the money, and (c) because I was an idiot.
It is probably my lack of knowledge but it seems to have been a strange army and a strange war because Grandee also seemed to have spent most of it studying art under various masters in Paris and London.
And it appears that a lot of soldiers were doing the same thing! Everyone was in uniform! (Well, not everyone). I looked at this closely and finally found my grandfather. If you blow it up (and don't look at the model!) my grandfather is in the back row, his head covering the lower right hand corner of the painting of the model's face.
Finally, unlike today’s army, he brought his wife (my grandmother) along with him. And while he says he never saw action and that the war was almost over when he got there, they always told the story about how my mother was born in London in the middle of a German Zeppelin raid, with bombs shaking the windows of the hospital.
I also realized he was a pretty damn good photographer as well. Long before the days of digital. 1914-1915? What kind of camera did he have, I wonder?
And he must have been in London (and /or France) for several years because in the picture below, she is clearly no longer a newborn.
Yes, I really wish I had asked him more questions about that time in his life. There must have been a wealth of incredible stories.
This post is so delicious. What an interesting time and what an interesting man he was. I wish I had that kind of detail from my father and grandfather. NOt much remains and most of the stories are with my brother. I enjoyed this look into history very much. That art studio shot has got to be the most interesting!
ReplyDeleteI wonder if the art classes were for a distraction. Most med students learn to play an instrument or take art to help get their minds off the trauma and grief they see. That was a wonderful post. History is one of my favorite subjects. Historical novels, I love 'em. I am reading the Clinton Tapes now, nothing good yet.
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Fascinating post about your Father, Mark. What an interesting life he had and how talented he was! Thanks for sharing and I do hope you write more!
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Now I really can't wait for the series to start. This is marvelous Mark. The finest thing I've read in weeks (including all my own posts).
ReplyDeleteI took an interest in my family history about ten years after my father passed away. It took me a decade of hard work to discover what I could have learned in half and hour's conversation.
Marvelous piece of family history. Isn't it sad that we don't know the important questions to ask until we're older and no one is left to answer them? There are so many questions I would ask my grandparents and great-grandparents now, if only I had the chance. Seance, anyone?
ReplyDeleteThis is a very touching series. I wish I had paid a lot more attention to my grandfather when he was alive. My mother's father was the only one of my grandparents that lived through my adolescence, and I regret that at the time I dreaded visiting him. Such foolishness! You're so wise to treasure this connection to the past.
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